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		<title>Q&amp;A Teenage Son with Asperger’s</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Note:  Asperger’s Syndrome is a milder variant of Autistic Disorder characterized by significant difficulties in social interaction, along with limited and repeated patterns of interest and behavior.
QUESTION  Any ideas for assisting our 17 year old son with Asperger’s who is very oppositional?
ANSWER  My husband, Chris, has worked with some clients like your son—late adolescence, Asperger&#8217;s, [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/08/qa-teenage-son-with-aspergers/</link>
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		<title>Q&amp;A: Husband&#8217;s Porn Problem</title>
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		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/06/qa-husbands-porn-problem/</link>
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		<title>Who Needs Therapy?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[This post is prompted by a comment/question responding to my last post on how to choose a therapist. The very relevant question, asked by “Pops,” was: “Who should see a therapist? These days we get therapy and medication for what would have been treated some time ago with a swift kick in the pants.”
ANSWER
I can’t [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/05/who-needs-therapy/</link>
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		<title>ON CHOOSING A THERAPIST</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I am often asked how to choose a therapist. My answer: LET THE BUYER BEWARE.
Here are a few thoughts.
Therapy is not cheap, so it makes sense to begin by checking with your insurance to see if there may be some coverage for mental/emotional health services. If there is coverage, there is generally a provider list—a [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/05/on-choosing-a-therapist/</link>
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		<title>Planning Vs. Preparation</title>
		<description><![CDATA[This thought comes from an insight my husband, Chris, had several years ago. In the course of his scripture studies, he noticed that God does not use the word “plan” as a verb.  Scripturally, the word, “plan,” is always a noun.
“Plan(s)” appears in the standard works (Bible, Book of Mormon, Doctrine &#38; Covenants, and Pearl [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Kauai Stake Fireside</title>
		<description><![CDATA[[ April 15, 2010; 7:00 pm; ] APRIL 15--Kauai Stake Center, 7 p.m.

If you know anyone on that beautiful island, let them know :).]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/04/kauai-stake-fireside/</link>
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		<title>Q&amp;A Does Depression Go With Us After This Life?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[QUESTION
There are two scriptures that have long troubled me that I would appreciate your perspective on. The scriptures are:  Alma 34:34 and Mormon 9:14.
Alma 34:34: Ye cannot say, when ye are brought to that awful crisis, that I will repent, that I will return to my God. Nay, ye cannot say this; for that same [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/04/qa-does-depression-go-with-us-after-this-life/</link>
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		<title>The Trouble With Giving Advice</title>
		<description><![CDATA[The Trouble with Giving Advice
There are at least two potential problems with advice-giving. First, it attempts to move the person in pain prematurely forward to rational problem-solving. Most of us are aware that when in the grip of strong emotion, it’s difficult to think all that rationally, so it’s not really a good idea to [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/03/the-trouble-with-giving-advice/</link>
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		<title>Salt Lake City Wasatch Stake Relief Society Event</title>
		<description><![CDATA[[ May 4, 2010; 7:30 pm; ] MAY 4th -- Salt Lake City Wasatch Stake Relief Society Event, 7:30 p.m.]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/03/salt-lake-city-wasatch-stake-relief-society-event/</link>
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		<title>Las Vegas Lone Mountain Stake Adult Fireside</title>
		<description><![CDATA[[ April 11, 2010; 12:00 am; ] Las Vegas Lone Mountain Stake, Adult Fireside--because of a last minute cancellation of another speaker, Chris and I filled in for the March fireside of this three month event. We were there on March 14th and will not be coming in April. Thanks to so many of our Las Vegas friends who came to see [...]]]></description>
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