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		<title>Q&amp;A I have a daughter who lies</title>
		<description><![CDATA[QUESTION  My oldest daughter, Krista (not her real name) will turn 8 soon and be baptized. Krista has always struggled with lying. She will carry on a lie for an hour, even when we know 100% that she is lying. Yesterday for instance, she lied for 45 minutes about taking a bite of a piece [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2011/09/qa-i-have-a-daughter-who-lies/</link>
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		<title>Q&amp;A Is There Celestial Hope for One Who has Never Suffered Greatly?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[QUESTION
I read Choosing Glory yesterday and loved it. I just wanted to comment on the idea that suffering is the route to changing terrestrial to celestial. My life is one of peace, joy, service, love and deep-seated contentment. I can honestly say I have no trials in my life, only blessings. My husband is faithful, [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2011/08/qa-is-there-celestial-hope-for-one-who-has-never-suffered-greatly/</link>
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		<title>Supporting Traditional Marriage</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I recently got an email from a former BYU student, now doing doctoral work in engineering in the Midwest. This young man wrote:
I have a co-worker with whom I have been discussing the issue of  same-sex marriage and the repercussions on society. He is pro-family in a  traditional sense, but is unsure on [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2011/06/supporting-traditional-marriage/</link>
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		<title>Q&amp;A Response to an Abusive Marriage</title>
		<description><![CDATA[QUESTION
I was married in the Temple 18 years ago and I have 6 children living at home.  My marriage has been continually emotionally and at times physically abusive. My husband&#8217;s anger and rage lie just beneath the surface and we live in fear that he will explode at any moment.  I have asked my husband [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2011/04/qa-response-to-an-abusive-marriage/</link>
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		<title>Q&amp;A  Limits to Listening</title>
		<description><![CDATA[(Note from Lili: My apologies to some who submit questions and wait a long time for an answer. Thanks for your patience. Thanks, too, to all who read and comment. I really appreciate your thoughts.)
QUESTION
I saw your August 2010 Ed Week presentation on BYU TV (dealing with hurt and anger).  It was excellent!  My question [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2011/02/qa-limits-to-listening/</link>
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		<title>Dads</title>
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My daughter, Eden, posted this on her blog recently and I find myself going back to it, once in a while, for sheer enjoyment. It always makes me smile.
More and more, society seems to regard fatherhood as optional. 41% of childbirths in the U.S. occur outside marriage. In 2 of 3 of these births, the [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/11/502/</link>
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		<title>Q&amp;A Can You Be Friends With a Spouse You Don’t Trust?</title>
		<description><![CDATA[QUESTION
My husband and I have serious marriage problems.  We&#8217;ve been married for 31 years and basically, I have never felt connected to him emotionally.  We married before I felt that connection, and I naively thought it was something you got after living together.  In my attempts to address this, he has felt inadequate to meet [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/11/qa-can-you-be-friends-with-a-spouse-you-dont-trust/</link>
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		<title>Q&amp;A Parenting Question</title>
		<description><![CDATA[QUESTION
I understand the idea of &#8220;making it worth their while&#8221; in parenting.  However, could you give me some specific examples so I can understand how to apply it?  My youngest (of four) is fourteen&#8211;a darling daughter that I cherish.  I have taught her piano for a decade and still can&#8217;t seem to &#8220;make it worth [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/09/qa-parenting-question/</link>
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		<title>Q&amp;A Teenage Son with Asperger’s</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Note:  Asperger’s Syndrome is a milder variant of Autistic Disorder characterized by significant difficulties in social interaction, along with limited and repeated patterns of interest and behavior.
QUESTION  Any ideas for assisting our 17 year old son with Asperger’s who is very oppositional?
ANSWER  My husband, Chris, has worked with some clients like your son—late adolescence, Asperger&#8217;s, [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/08/qa-teenage-son-with-aspergers/</link>
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		<title>Q&amp;A: Husband&#8217;s Porn Problem</title>
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		<link>http://lilianderson.com/2010/06/qa-husbands-porn-problem/</link>
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